3 Tricks You Can Use to Take Her “Over the Edge” Every Time

How to Get Her Off and Get in Control of Any Situation…

It’s been shown to relieve stress…

Make your partner less likely to cheat…

Cure insomnia…

And even make you feel less pain.

What’s this miracle cure I’m talking about?

An orgasm, of course!

The female orgasm is, for many men, an obsession.

And understandably so: You begin your life as an orgasm, so it’s only natural that you’d subsequently spend your life pursuing them.

If you’ve successfully made a woman climax and know for certain that it happened, then you know how powerful it can make you feel.

But what if I told you your ability to take her over the edge might be completely out of your control?

That’s what a new study published in Clinical Anatomy is saying.

According to the study, it’s not the size of your junk that determines whether or not you’ll give her an orgasm.

In fact, it’s the positioning of her own anatomy!

Let’s take a deeper look into what’s really going on when you have an orgasm.

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The Male Orgasm Vs. The Female Orgasm

Think about the last time you wanted to achieve an orgasm with a woman but couldn’t.

I know, I know — nobody wants to think about that. But go there, just for a second.

What happened? Were you:

• Psyching yourself out…
• Unable to focus…
• Depressed…
• Stressed…
• Distracted…

Notice that all of these points have to do with what you were thinking or feeling at the time.

Well, according to the study, your own body can actually prevent you from having an orgasm!

Specifically, there are certain signals sent between your brain, spinal cord, and penis that must be properly functioning for you to have an orgasm.

Think about it like a stoplight.

When all of the lights are working, traffic can move smoothly and people can always get to where they’re going.

If just one light is out, though, it often causes a backup, and in fact it might prevent drivers from reaching their destination.

In just a second, I'm going to show you what you can do to bring her over the edge…but what if you can't even get there on your own?

Renowned sex expert Ruwando is here to help. He's already given you tips on how to last longer (or shorter) in bed and how to be more sexually dominant, but he's got some great advice for how you can relax when you're with a woman as well:

The more attention you place on physical sensation, the less attention you can spend on stress-inducing thoughts. Become curious about finding pleasurable sensations between the two of you. Women can feel when you are paying attention [to them] anyway. That's essentially what women mean when they say they want a man who is ‘present.' They want a man who can keep his attention on the present moment, which includes her and her body.

So by focusing on the pleasurable sensations you feel, you'll not only solve your stress problem…

But she'll have a better experience too! Speaking of her experience…

The Secret Key to Getting Her Off…

When it comes to the female orgasm, there are a lot of complicated issues.

Here’s the one big thing you have to know about the female orgasm:

The closer a woman’s clitoris gets to her front vaginal wall, the more likely she is to climax.

I know that probably sounds like something out of a medical school textbook, so here's a quick refresher about the female anatomy:

The clitoris is a woman’s most sensitive erogenous zone and is located above her vagina, just above her urethra. While the “head” of a woman’s clitoris (the part you can see) is only the size of a pea, the entire clitoris is actually the size of a medium zucchini!

Inside a woman, the clitoris stretches down either side of her vaginal walls — this is why the closer her clitoris is to her front vaginal wall, the more likely she will be to have an orgasm.

For some women, this is an easy thing to achieve — their clitorises are naturally close to their front vaginal walls.

For other women, however, this is a huge issue and can even prevent them from experiencing pleasure.

During sex, a woman’s clitoris becomes larger and “migrates” toward the front vaginal wall — this happens to all women and is nature’s way of trying to maximize the possibility of an orgasm.

But if your partner’s clitoris is too far from her vaginal walls, then you’ll have a much harder time taking her over the edge.

While you can’t determine if a woman will have this “condition” just by looking at her, there are some things you can do to maximize your chances of making her climax…

3 Techniques to Make Her Climax Every Single Time…

Knowing that the woman you're with might be hindered by her own anatomy doesn’t give you a whole lot of help when you’re actually in bed with her.

Here are three things you can do to use her anatomy to your advantage (and look like a total rockstar in bed):

1) Use the Right Positions.

As part of the study, researchers examined couples having sex in a MRI machine.

What they found was that females received the most pleasure when the front of their vaginal walls were the most stimulated.

This means you want to use positions that stimulate that specific area.

Positions like missionary and cowgirl — while not “experimental” and a little on the “vanilla” side — are actually perfect for stimulating a woman’s front vaginal wall!

If you go with missionary, remember that you’re on top of her, but you shouldn’t lay directly on top of her. Support your weight with your arms, and use your legs to give yourself momentum.

If you’d rather go with cowgirl or girl on top, then start by laying down while she sits on your groin facing you. Rock her back and forth, but also let her direct the pace — this will allow her to maximize her own pleasure and make things easier for you.

The key is to stick with the classics, and you’ll be more likely to give her an orgasm.

If you’re dead set on experimenting with new positions, try getting creative during foreplay.

But if you’re serious about taking her over the edge during sex, stick to missionary and cowgirl for maximum pleasure.

2) Follow the 30-45 Degree Rule.

Similarly to the above point, there’s a specific angle you can enter a woman that will maximize her pleasure — this “sweet spot” is between 30 and 45 degrees.

To give you an idea of what that means, hold up both of your hands so your palms are touching and your fingers are pointing upward. If your hands were a clock, this puts them at the 12:00 position.

Now, move your right hand so it’s at about 2:00 — this is the range you want. Move your right hand diagonally up and down to get an idea of how that angle should feel for you.

If you’re in missionary, for example, try to angle slightly upward. Don’t focus on being too precise — this will just ruin your mood and confuse her.

If she’s on top, angle your hips upward to create a slight tilt.

It shouldn’t feel unnatural. Remember, this is about your pleasure, too!

But if you hit that angle, stay there, and watch what happens. You won’t be disappointed.

This brings me to the next step…

3) Get a Verbal Assessment.

Here’s a secret: There’s a way to tell if a woman is going to have an orgasm that doesn’t require any knowledge of her anatomy…

Ask her!

It’s no secret that some women are more verbal than others in bed.

If she’s verbal with you, then you’re set — she will definitely let you know when she’s close.

However, if you’re with a woman on the quieter side, encourage her to let you know how she feels!

It doesn’t have to be clinical.

Instead of asking,

“Are you going to have an orgasm now?”…

“How about now?”…

“Not Yet? REALLY…..?”

Try:

“Are you close?”…

Or…

“Do you like that?”…

For example, even though you now know that the missionary and cowgirl positions are optimal for achieving her orgasm, she might not want to do those positions. By asking her these questions, you give her an “in” to let you know directly what she likes and doesn't like.

The goal is to work together to figure out what makes both of you feel best. According to Ruwando,

Instead of finding some magical thrust that works with every woman,  find the positions that feel good to the two of you. Every pair of genitals is a different shape and size, and therefore, they will have different ways of fitting together…Also, if you're sleeping with someone repeatedly, it pays to talk about what feels good (Yes you can do it during sex, and yes you can make it sexy).

Communicating with her will not only ensure she has an orgasm, but it will make your orgasm better as well.

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What This Study Is Actually Saying…

What this study found can certainly help explain why some women have orgasms more easily than others.

But, more importantly, it should make you feel less pressure if you come across a woman you just can’t seem to get off.

The truth is that society puts a ton of emphasis on being “good” in bed…

But “good” is a relative word!

What you like in bed might be different from what your coworkers and friends like in bed, which might be different from what I like in bed…

You get the point.

This study shows that the orgasm is an incredibly complex, nuanced, and largely misunderstood phenomenon.

According to study author Dr. Jason Siegel,

This gives us a more scientific and anatomical basis for why people aren’t achieving orgasm than just the societal feelings of penis size or G-spot placement.

This study is not a one-and-done cure to make her come. But it is a step forward in understanding how to do it.

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Here’s What You Should Do Next

Understanding how she gets off will help you do better with all kinds of women in so many ways…

But it won’t help you at all if you still aren’t sure how to get with her in the first place!

Did you know women are up to 10 times more sensitive to touch than men?

That’s why it’s so important to know exactly how to touch a woman when you want to turn her on.

If you touch a woman in exactly the right way, you can get almost complete control over her…

And this is true of literally any woman — from the shy girl you see on your morning commute…

…to the extroverted waitress you always wish would flirt with you…

…to that incredibly hot girl at the gym who you wish you could get the courage to talk to…

The good news is, what you say to these girls doesn't even matter, as long as you touch them in the right place at the right time.

So here’s what you need to do: Just click here now to learn why women will fall under your deep spell when you touch them in these specific ways…

2 Hot Pornstars Reveal What Gives Them Super Intense, Unbelievably Pleasurable Mega-O’s

Use these intense orgasm tips to get her sexually addicted to you…

Use These Intense Orgasm Tips to Get Girls Completely “Addicted” to You In Bed…

Hey, it’s Craig, Gotham Club’s founder.

It’s week two of our brand-new series where adult film stars get to answer Gotham Club readers' most burning sex & relationship-related questions.

Yes, that's right(!).

We asked pornstars the questions you've been dying to have answered…. and they really delivered.

So today, Ember Snow and Ryder Skye are answering a question from Gotham Club readers.

Ember Snow is a prolific star in the industry, and is known as “America's porn sweetheart.” 

Ryder Skye is also a prolific star in the industry, and recently released a line of clothing called Slutwear.

And today, Ember and Ryder are answering the following question for you:

What’s your secret to intense orgasms (for both male and female stars)?

Catch The Full Q&A Session Below…

Ember Snow:  “It's not really about me, as much as it is about what the other person is doing to me.  

Once I feel that an orgasm is building, I try to not allow it to peak too quickly.  

The more I hold on to it and allow it to build even more, the steeper the drop is, you know what I mean?

Ryder Skye: “Intense orgasms. Intense orgasms, specifically. 

Everyone's so different as far as things specifically intense orgasms, everyone's very, very different, so it's hard to pin down one thing. 

I always felt like one of those important things would be to pay attention to the other person. 

I feel like knowing somebody and picking up on their basically how they react to certain things is the best way to get to know somebody really well, sexually. 

The more you pay attention to them, the more you'll know exactly what to do, and you know, what kind of things the person likes. 

I think that would probably be the best way to learn somebody and to know how to get them off.

After trying out these intense orgasm tips, use this proven technique to get her addicted to you in bed.

Here’s A Step-By-Step Technique I Personally Use to Give Hot Girls EXPLOSIVE “Mega-O’s”…

Alright, so that’s all great advice up there…

… but I know “pay attention to the other person” and “get to know them sexually” might seem a *little* abstract…

… so let me give you something more specific that’s allowed me to give almost every woman I’ve been with EXTREMELY intense orgasms:

(His full name is Lawrence Lanoff… feel free to look up some of the videos he directed for “research purposes” if you’ve got a little more time on your hands right now… haha…)

Basically, this is the move he would use when he needed girls to have real orgasms on-camera…

… because it worked better than ANYTHING else (including oral, using giant toys or even deep, forceful penetration) to give girls intense, long-lasting O’s… that leave them shaking almost as if they had a seizure.

(I literally had to ask the first girl I tried this one if she was OK… she nearly fell off my bed!)

I think my favorite part is you DON’T need a giant d*ck to pull this off… just your hands and a few minutes of effort (less than 5 minutes a lot of the time)…

And did I mention sex feels A LOT better after you do this?

Having a G-Spot Orgasm

Despite reports over the years that have suggested the G-spot is a sexual Narnia—a mythical pleasure zone created to frustrate us all when we can't actually find it—we can confirm that this treasure chest truly exists.

“The G-spot is real, but it’s not actually a spot or button you can push,” says sex expert Jessica O’Reilly, Ph.D. "It’s a region of nerves and tissues along the upper wall of the vagina, a few centimeters to a few inches past your vaginal opening." For the record, around 30 percent of women claim they can climax from stimulation of the G-spot. But if penetration alone doesn't seem to give you the tingles, it can help to explore the area yourself first to help you find your G-spot: Put a small amount of lube on one or two fingers, and insert them into your vagina, palm facing up. Feel along the upper wall of the vagina (nearest the belly) for a rippled or textured surface that says “helloooooo!” when you stroke it.

Now for the fun stuff—hitting the G-spot during sex. “The most effective position for a lot of women is girl on top,” says O’Reilly. The reason: Tilting your body back slightly while straddling him allows the pressure of his penis to push right up against your vaginal wall—that hotbed for stimulation. It can help to put your hands on his thighs for support and then rock your hips to play around with depth, angle, and speed of penetration. Most guys can last longer in girl on top, too, (the back-and-forth penetration isn’t as stimulating for him as plunging in and out), which ups your odds for vaginal orgasm. Plus, he’s got easy access to your clitoris if you want to double the fun, says O’Reilly.

Feel along the upper wall of the vagina (nearest the belly) for a rippled or textured surface that says “helloooooo!” when you stroke it.
Not working? Make doggy style your next move. Kneel on all fours on the bed with your back slightly arched. (It may help to drop to your elbows since having your goods slightly higher than his penis can put him in better position to stroke the vaginal wall.)
All said and done, finding this pleasure zone isn’t easy, so if you get bored or frustrated, there’s no shame in throwing in the towel. “What’s interesting is that while the G-spot is real, not everybody loves it stroked, similar to how some of us like our feet touched and others don’t.”
Can't hurt to try it out to see if you are one of those people who likes it, though.

How To Find Your G-Spot So You Can Have The Strongest Orgasms Ever

The elusive G-spot is one of the most hotly debated areas when it comes to women's sexual health. But despite what you may have been told in your (less-than-great) seventh grade sex education class, the G-spot most definitely exists and is absolutely accessible.
"The G-spot is the urethral sponge hitting up against the vaginal wall," explains Carolanne Marcantonio, LMSW, a senior sex therapist and co-founder of Wise Therapy. "Similar to an erect penis, the sponge gets bigger when aroused, so you can find it better when you’re turned on."
That said, some people might think the G-spot doesn't exist simply because not every woman has one. Plus, the G-spot wraps around the urethra, which can make you feel like you need to pee and isn’t always pleasurable, says Marcantonio. So if you don’t like this sensation, no harm, no foul—just skip the G-spot when you play.
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But if you've stumbled across your G-spot a few times and were like, "OMGGGG"—listen up. It's not just your G-spot that feels amazing. "When the G-spot is stimulated, it pushes against the mons pubis, which pushes against the clitoris and clitoral ligaments, which causes pleasure," says Marcantonio. "It’s all connected."
Now that you know the G-spot exists, how do you find it?
First things first, you need to know where to look. "The G-spot is about two inches in and one inch up inside of the vagina," says Taylor Sparks, erotic educator and founder of OrganicLoven.com. "But all women are different and you may need to go one inch up and to the right or left. This will take exploration and is best done with your fingers."

And while it's long been regarded as a bit of a human sexuality mystery, once you find it, you can unlock that ever-elusive dual vaginal and clitoral orgasm (yes!).
But how, exactly, do you find your G-spot? Some tips here:
Before you take your fingers on a spelunking mission, get into a sexy mood. When you're aroused, more blood rushes to your pelvic region and the spot becomes raised and easier to find. So light some candles, fantasize, fire up some feminist porn, or do whatever else you like.
Once you're all hot and bothered, Marcantonio recommends "inserting your finger(s) two to three inches up, curving the finger(s), and then rocking them towards the belly button."
If you're playing with a partner or a toy, you can also enter the vagina from behind, just keep the pressure pointing towards your belly button.
Your G-spot might feel rougher than other parts of your vagina, or feel like a ridged area, but that's not always the case. "There's no specific texture you need to be looking for," says Marcantonio. "The best way to find it is to experiment."

Once you find your G-spot (good job!), what should you do now?
Use firm, deep pressure to stroke the area. Try a rhythmic circular motion or more of an up-and-down technique, says Yvonne K. Fulbright, PhD, sexuality educator and author of Sultry Sex Talk to Seduce Any Lover. Another popular method is moving your fingers in a "come here" motion (kind of appropriate, right?).
Keep in mind that the G-spot isn't actually on the vaginal front wall. Instead, it's something you can feel through the center of the front wall, or a bit off to the left or right of the center. Since it's not right there, you may need more pressure than you think to hit the jackpot.
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If you're struggling to find the G-spot with your fingers, or just want more pressure than your fingers can produce, Marcantonio recommends trying a curved non-vibrating sex toy, such as the stainless steel Njoy Pure Wand dildo. Pro tip: Lube up the toy before inserting it slowly and making a rocking motion towards your belly button. Also clutch: The 10 Best Vibrators To Hit That Sweet G-Spot Every Time.
If it's feeling good so far, increase the rhythm, and create a lot of friction as you go on to boost your chances of orgasm. "Stimulating the area will create sensations if it's a hot spot for you. Some people describe a warm, flushing feeling throughout their genitals and body," says Fulbright. "Others says they become a lot wetter." Even better, she says women have reported G-spot orgasms feeling fuller, more intense, more emotional, and more full-bodied than the clitoral variety. Of course, if you don't reach the Big O, but it feels crazy good anyway, that's awesome, too. Getting to know your body better is always a good thing.
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"G-spot sensation also varies based on the menstrual cycle," says Marcantonio. In fact, "all pleasure spots can change as the body progresses through its cycle." So don’t freak out if the sensation changes throughout the month—that’s just your body doing its thing.
Can stimulating your G-spot help you squirt?
If you're interested in squirting, a.k.a. female ejaculation, tapping into your G-spot might be the way to go. While not everybody can squirt, and ejaculation does not equal orgasm, "G-spot stimulation is often encouraged in exploring one's potential to squirt since the ejaculate often occurs when a woman is peaking—not necessarily climaxing—during G-spot play," explains Fulbright.
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Female ejaculation comes from "the buildup of fluid in the urethral sponge," adds Marcantonio. If enough fluid builds up and is followed up by intense pressure (both on the G-spot and the clitoris), ejaculation can occur. It won’t always happen—and tbh, it depends on how hydrated you are—but if squirting excites you, it's definitely worth a try. Just, uh, remember to put a towel down before you play.

Are there any sex positions that stimulate the G-spot?
Glaaaad you asked. Generally speaking, positions that (a) give you more control over your movements (you on top) or (b) allow for deeper penetration (like doggy style) will increase your odds of a G-spot orgasm. More here: 10 Sex Positions That Will Hit Your G-Spot Every. Single. Time. Yeah, you're welcome.
Most importantly, remember that every body is different. So if your first attempt at G-spot stimulation isn’t a total success, just keep experimenting. After all, practice makes perfect, right?

SEX TOYS THAT WILL GET HER OFF EVERY TIME

Whether you’re in a long-term, short-term, or no relationship at all, you clicked on this article because you’re curious about ways to spice up your sex life. If you’ve ever wondered if your girl has faked an orgasm, we’re going to clue you in on something: Odds are very high she has. But don’t feel bad. “Only about 30 percent of women regularly orgasm with their partners,” says Tracey Cox, relationship expert and owner of Love Honey. But the easiest (and fastest) way to make her climax is by using a vibrator.

Here’s why: “Since the clitoris has the most nerve endings, it is the most sensitive spot and many women need sustained clitoral stimulation for an orgasm,” says Claire Cavanah, co-founder of Babeland and co-author of Moregasm: Babeland’s Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex and Sex Toys 101. Most, if not all, vibrators—especially the ones we rounded up here—are specifically designed to pleasure her in a way that proves to be orgasmic.

And if you think you’re being “replaced,” think again. Incorporating toys encourages couples to communicate during those deep moments of intimate (and possibly even awkward) penetration. This allows you to fully understand your partner’s sexual needs, thus increasing intimacy and even sexual performance. “Sex is good for us, both physically and mentally,” Cox adds. “It decreases stress, boosts the immune system, and gives us a sense of wellbeing.“

So, introduce one (or more) of these 10 sex toys into your sex life.

WHAT’S THE BEST WAY TO MAKE SHOWER SEX WORK?

Shower sex is tricky because it’s awfully difficult to find a position that works that isn’t uncomfortable—usually for her. (Sorry, guys, those acrobatic porn shower scenes aren’t usually fun for the ladies.) And it’s tough to put a condom on a wet penis, compounded by the risk that it could slip off or break. Honestly, your best move is to keep your shower sex an oral affair. Besides, when she’s nice and clean, there’s a good chance she’ll enjoy it more.

But if you’re hell-bent on going all the way in the shower, follow these steps: 1) Put the condom on before getting in. 2) Use a silicone-based lubricant (such as Astroglide) that won’t wash off as easily in water. 3) Don’t consider soap, lotion, or bath gel makeshift lube—they can seriously irritate your lady and, if they’re oil-based, weaken condoms. 4) Choose a position where you can both anchor yourselves—her leaning against the wall facing you, or standing doggystyle so you can both have your hands against the tiles.

Oh, and don’t grab a shower rod that isn’t firmly bolted to the wall.