Oh, Yes! Women Open Up About What Moves They Use When Faking An Orgasm

If you're a woman who has had sex, you know that it's not always easy to climax. A lot of women can only orgasm through oral sex, meaning that while penetration might feel good, it's not  Unfortunately, some women don't feel comfortable speaking up about what they like during sex, meaning they tend to fake their orgasms a lot of the time. So how exactly do they do that? Here, 15 women on Reddit tell all.

User burnbaby0. "I moan and move like I do when I actually orgasm. Saying things like "I'm cumming" usually do the trick. In my experience, unless you've been with a guy for a long time and they know precisely how you look/feel/act, etc during and after orgasm, they are clueless."

User mmmmmbb. "I used to fake orgasms when I was younger and thought that I was "weird" for not being able to cum from PIV. I would build up to it with louder moaning, grabbing on tighter with my legs/hands, arching my back, tensing up, then flexing my kegels."

User Han_Can. "I've faked before while I was seeing this guy but we weren't committed. Mostly because he had decent stamina and wouldn't come until I did. Some nights if we were drinking or the session was lasting a while, I would clench my kegels and slightly over-exaggerate the moans. I don't think he could tell, he never made any mention of it."

User gilletee. "After escorting for a few years faking an orgasm is a core requirement of the job. I go about doing it by making it as close to the real thing as possible, which includes moaning squirming "i'm coming" etc, but the main thing is contracting your vaginal/PC/kegel muscles in a rythhmic contraction just like a genuine orgasm. FYI I would never bother to fake in my private life."

User darthliki. "Did this maybe a decade ago with first boyfriend. It's just incrementally increasing moans and sounds and wiggling until eventually you gasp and arch your back then relax your muscles."

User MsLT. "I squeeze my kegels, moan louder, speed up my breathing, and buck my hips. Sometimes I claw or scratch my partner for good measure. I don't fake anymore though, my boyfriends are thankfully both good in bed."

User Lady_Lucid. "I have faked a bit in my past when I was young and naive. Basically I'd just say that I was orgasming and they would believe me. But faking is useless for both parties involved."

User MessedupMakeup. "I used to fake it when I first started having sex. Mimic what I do when I actually orgasm. Moaning, heavier breathing, body spasms, muscle contractions etc. There isn't any way you would be able to tell usually because most women know what they do when they actually orgasm enough to mimic it."

User squinkie. "I don't fake mine, I would rather tell my partner the truth about what works and what doesn't. I don't want him to put a lot of effort into something that does nothing for me."

User hotpinkhearse. "I don't know if I've ever really faked one, but sometimes I fake a little more excitement than I feel if I'm jus not really into it that night. It's partially an attempt to "fake it til I make it" which I do find helps sometimes, and partially just because it seems more polite that filing my nails!! As long as it's not bad/painful which it almost never is, if I know my body is just not really having it that time there's really no reason for me to try to micromanage what's going on. Also just in some positions I'l fake enjoyment even if they don't do much for me because I know he really likes them so I want him to extra enjoy it if you will. Then we can switch to something that really works for me.

User stellarmeadow. "Sometimes when we're having sex I'll get really close, and then he'll switch positions or stop, and I back down. But then after, he thinks he gave me an orgasm, and I just don't have the heart to tell him otherwise. I don't ever fake the whole thing, though. If I didn't come close I don't pretend."

Anonymous user. “I don't think I've ever really faked, but I have done an equivalent of faking and overplayed what is barely an orgasm. I don't like to but some guys get impatient and I'll be enjoying it and they'll be like, "Oh are you going to come soon?" or "I want you to come." And the minute they say that, I'm not really in the mood anymore. I'm really easy to get off so just shut your fucking mouth and let me come when I want to rather than trying to force me to. Is that really your only goal?"

User celestialism. "I've never faked one and I never will. Good sex is important to me and faking orgasms would guarantee that I'd never have good sex."

User kb13733. "Only if I'm having phone sex. You might tell me to touch myself and I'll make all the right sounds but I probably still have all my clothes on and I'm probably playing minecraft. Otherwise I don't fake it."

User underoath-. "I dont have to fake it for him, but I purposefully give a lot of verbal/physical cues when I like what hes doing. It turns him on and turning him on turns me on. Both of us win."