Whether you’re in a long-term, short-term, or no relationship at all, you clicked on this article because you’re curious about ways to spice up your sex life. If you’ve ever wondered if your girl has faked an orgasm, we’re going to clue you in on something: Odds are very high she has. But don’t feel bad. “Only about 30 percent of women regularly orgasm with their partners,” says Tracey Cox, relationship expert and owner of Love Honey. But the easiest (and fastest) way to make her climax is by using a vibrator.Here’s why: “Since the clitoris has the most nerve endings, it is the most sensitive spot and many women need sustained clitoral stimulation for an orgasm,” says Claire Cavanah, co-founder of Babeland and co-author of Moregasm: Babeland’s Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex and Sex Toys 101. Most, if not all, vibrators—especially the ones we rounded up here—are specifically designed to pleasure her in a way that proves to be orgasmic.
And if you think you’re being “replaced,” think again. Incorporating toys encourages couples to communicate during those deep moments of intimate (and possibly even awkward) penetration. This allows you to fully understand your partner’s sexual needs, thus increasing intimacy and even sexual performance. “Sex is good for us, both physically and mentally,” Cox adds. “It decreases stress, boosts the immune system, and gives us a sense of wellbeing.“
So, introduce one (or more) of these 10 sex toys into your sex life.
Shower sex is tricky because it’s awfully difficult to find a position that works that isn’t uncomfortable—usually for her. (Sorry, guys, those acrobatic porn shower scenes aren’t usually fun for the ladies.) And it’s tough to put a condom on a wet penis, compounded by the risk that it could slip off or break. Honestly, your best move is to keep your shower sex an oral affair. Besides, when she’s nice and clean, there’s a good chance she’ll enjoy it more.