Can You Spot the Signs a Woman Is Good in Bed?
As a woman, I know we aren’t always that easy to figure out.
And in fact, entire studies have been devoted to studying our behavior…it’s that complicated.
Especially when it comes to sex…we women like to “hide” our true intentions and make our desires a complete mystery — until the exact moment we’re naked and on top of you.
But a group of studies recently revealed 7 subtle signs a woman is good in bed — and believe it or not, these signs have nothing to do with sex.
You might see a woman doing them at your job…
In the grocery store…
Even on the train.
Don’t believe me?
Just check them out for yourself:
1) She Drinks…But Not Too Much
As I’ve written about before, women who drink on the first date are 86% more likely to go home with you…but that doesn’t necessarily mean she’ll be dynamite in the sack.
Let’s look at the effect alcohol has on a woman’s body:
- It makes her more social…
- It lowers her inhibitions…
- It relaxes her…
So if she drinks “in moderation” — AKA she’s drinking but is not getting drunk — then she’ll still be sober enough to give you consent should things get hot and heavy…and her inhibitions will be lower.
And that means she’ll be more willing to try “new” or “different” things with you, and she’ll generally be more “open” with you.
Now, I’m not saying that women who stay sober are bad in bed. That’s absolutely not the case!
But if she does drink, pay attention to her behavior. Because if you notice she’s getting really drunk — her eyes glaze over, she’s slurring her words, and you notice she’s swaying back and forth…
That’s a sign she’ll be sloppy between the sheets (and not in a good way). But if she keeps her cool after drinking a few? Full steam ahead.
2) She Makes Strong Eye Contact
As we know, making eye contact is a huge sign of confidence. And a woman who’s confident?
Well, that confidence will likely translate to her skills in bed.
A woman who makes eye contact with you is also showing you she’s not afraid to make a connection with you.
Imagine this:
You’re having sex with a woman who’s just lying there…
Her eyes are closed…
And she might as well be dead to the world.
Now imagine having sex with a woman who’s fully present…
She’s responding to every touch and caress you give her…
And she’s determined to satisfy your every need…
Which woman would you rather sleep with?
A woman who makes strong eye contact is going to be present with you in bed — and that almost always makes sex better for both of you.
3) She Makes You (And the People Around Her) Laugh
Making a complete stranger laugh is no easy feat. So if you see a woman making everyone else around her laugh, you immediately know 2 things:
1) She’s self-assured and has high self-esteem (because she can handle other people paying attention to her), and…
2) She’s excellent with her timing (it takes a great deal of timing-related skill to land a joke with an entire group of people)
2) She’s excellent with her timing (it takes a great deal of timing-related skill to land a joke with an entire group of people)
These 2 qualities also mean she’ll likely be good in bed. Why?
A woman who has high self-esteem will be comfortable in any sexual position — including girl-on-top. A lot of women aren’t comfortable with girl-on-top because they’re insecure about their bodies…
But a woman with high self-esteem? Giddy up, cowboy.
On top of that, a woman who can handle her timing in a group of people will also be able to handle her timing in bed with you. Which means she’ll pay attention to your rhythm, respond to it, and focus on your pleasure.
4) She’s Passionate
This one is pretty straightforward, but that doesn’t make it any less important. A woman who expresses her passions to you will be much more open expressing her passion in the bedroom.
Now, being “passionate” doesn’t mean clawing at your back and saying “I love you” after your first time in bed together — it’s not the equivalent of emotional instability.
Rather, a passionate woman is emotionally in touch with herself. She knows what she likes, and she goes after it.
A woman who knows what she likes and is able to express it is the best kind of women to take home, because she’ll be much more likely to be vocal (“Yes! More, harder!” Etc.) when you’re doing something she likes…
And she’ll also be willing to take direction from you in bed. That way, both of your needs are being met, and neither of you feels “slighted” after the fact.
So what does a “passionate” woman look like?
Listen for the words “love” and “hate.” If she starts talking about something she “loves”…that’s a sign she’s passionate.
Also look at her face and hands — if she shows her emotions very strongly through her face (smiling a lot, furrowing her brows) and gestures a lot with her hands, those are 2 dead giveaways she’s passionate (in more ways than one).
5) She Doesn’t Smoke Cigarettes
This one is straight up science: Smoking is bad for your sex life. Here are some of the side effects of smoking that can kill the vibe in the bedroom:
- Smoking decreases blood flow to the genitals…
- It lowers libido…
- It makes physical endurance activities (like sex) very difficult…
And that’s just the tip of the iceberg.
Now, I’m not saying you can’t have an amazing and healthy sex life if you smoke! It’s just not helping you have the best sex you possibly can.
The bottom line: If your main goal is to find mind-blowing sex, look for a woman who isn’t taking cigarette breaks every 20 minutes.
6) She Reads for Fun
I know “reading for fun” doesn’t sound like the sexiest activity, but stay with me for a second.
One recent study discovered that people who read for fun have more empathy for others. A woman who has a lot of empathy is able to feel and appreciate others’ emotional needs and desires…
So a woman with a lot of empathy will be more likely to focus on fulfilling your desires in bed.
On top of that, people who read also tend to be less stressed out, which means a woman who reads for fun is probably more fun in bed too.
That brings me to the most powerful sign of all she’s an absolute stunner in the sack…
7) She Gives You Her “Secret Sex Signals”
When I see a man I’m interested in…I want him to know I’m good in bed…
But in a crowded bar, telling you “I’m dynamite in the sack!” is kinda tricky…because I don’t want other women around me to think I’m “easy” or a “slut”…
I tend to err on the side of caution… so I’ll probably be sending you some fairly subtle signs.
Seriously, it’s crazy, if you were talking to me in a bar, and you spotted me doing one of these signs, you’d know you were in. No question about it. (Let’s go back to my place!)
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