Used to love sex but now I never want to sleep with husband and can’t orgasm if I do

MY sex life is rubbish at the moment. I never want to have sex. Is there something wrong with me?

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I've just got no interest in having sex with my husband and I can't orgasmCredit: Getty - Contributor

I am 28 and have three lovely children all aged under five, as well as a fantastic husband who I love very much.

He is a great dad too but we have a lot going on with managing our budget and trying to move house.

I am having difficulty in reaching orgasm when we have sex – and that’s not like me at all. I have always loved sex in the past and been up for it at any time.

I don’t want to push my husband away.

DEIDRE SAYS: Stress can play havoc with your sex drive and responses like orgasm.

I know you are busy but try to plan some uninterrupted together-time once the children have gone to bed, when you can linger over loving to get yourselves in the mood.

My e-leaflet Women And Orgasm can help you rediscover pleasure and satisfaction.

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