Why You Have To Stop Looking For The G-Spot

Men: you have to stop looking for the g-spot. When it comes to pleasing a woman, a lot of men go straight for the G-spot, the area in a woman’s vagina that is most widely known for giving women the most powerful and mind-blowing orgasms they could ever experience. While g-spots are an important area to focus on, it’s also not the only area that a man should be trying to stimulate. Here, we discuss why you shouldn’t strictly focus all your attention on this one particular area.

Fear. Men, don’t let adult films trick you into thinking that it’s all about the g-spot, and ladies, don’t be afraid to communicate when something just simply isn’t working for you, because what do you have to lose? (Aside from a potential orgasm!)

G-spot. The g-spot is perhaps the most widely discussed part of a woman’s vagina, when it comes to talking pleasing her or trying to get her to reach orgasm.

Penetration. It’s buried inside the vagina, close to the front wall. The truth is however, a lot of women have a hard time climaxing just from penetration, and most women say that they can only reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation.

Frustration. A woman named Emily writes via the Red Lipstick Project about her frustrations with men and their obsession with finding the g-spot. While it is a good way to make a woman orgasm, it isn’t the only way, and she wants men everywhere to know.

Experience. "I had a boyfriend in college who was obsessed with locating and banging my G spot. It was the most frustrating sexual experience of my life. And some women respond to G spot stuff and others don’t. Let’s just get that out of the way,” writes Emily, via the Red Lipstick Project.

Efforts. She writes that despite his best efforts, he would miss the most important part of her body, the one that mattered the most and would lead to a guaranteed orgasm— her clit.

Hints. "I remember trying to squirm around and position myself to make it easier for him to give me a little finger action. I would splay myself on the bed and dirty talk about licking/stroking/acknowledging my clit, but he drove on. Hard and fast. He clearly never got my (not-so) subtle hints,” writes Emily, via the Red Lipstick Project.

Simple. So what is it about men that has them so confused? The answer is as simple as the fact that they simply just don’t know that there are other ways to please a woman aside from her g-spot.

Communication. It’s important to communicate with your partner and let them know exactly what it is you want from them, and what feels good to you, otherwise they’ll be left just as clueless as ever before.