Ladies, These Are The Ways You’re Masturbating Wrong

Masturbating is generally thought of as something only men do, but the truth is, ladies are proud masturbators just like the opposite sex. The only difference is that they don’t center entire conversations with their friends around it, but maybe it’s about time we should, because how else are you going to learn new tips and tricks for your solo sessions? If you’re not yet ready to be so open about your masturbation habits with your friends, there are still ways you can learn new tips to enjoy masturbation even more. Here, we discuss the different ways you might be masturbating incorrectly, and how you can fix it so that you can fully enjoy your solo time.

Normal. Masturbating isn’t something to be ashamed of, and it’s a normal and natural way for a woman to explore and get to know her body.

Skills. Some women have a general idea of masturbation, and have the necessary skills to get the job done. But that doesn’t mean masturbation has to be boring.

Lube. The first thing to know about masturbation, is that lube is your best friend. A lot of women completely forgo the use of lube, which upon using it, they’ll find out is a complete game changer.

Moisture. Lube provides added moisture, and you can squeeze some onto the tips of your fingers, and go to town. Cosmopolitan recommends massaging around your clitoris and inner labia to make things more pleasurable.

Time. Masturbation is something that should be enjoyed, and not rushed. A lot of women will get the job done and don’t take enough time to get to know their bodies well enough.

Partner. Giving yourself some extra time to figure out what you like will also benefit you when you decided to use a partner instead.

Guide. You’ll be able to guide your partner to places you already know are guaranteed to satisfy you.

Foreplay. Just because someone else isn’t involved doesn’t mean you can’t use a little bit of foreplay on yourself before masturbating. Try caressing your inner things, slowly working your way to your inner labia, and then to your clitoris.

Needs. You don’t have to stick to only using your fingers and hand when masturbating, contrary to what a lot of women think. The good thing about being a woman is that there are a lot of sex toys catered specifically for our needs.

Toys. Try starting out with a vibrator and see how comfortable you get with that before moving on to something else. You can also incorporate a vibrator into sex with your partner.

Senses. Try to get in touch with your body’s other senses while you masturbate. Watching a sexy movie or listening to music that makes you feel sexier will make your masturbation session that much more interesting.

Position. Some women will stick to lying on their backs, under the covers, with all the blinds drawn. Try switching things up a bit and sitting with one leg up. If you’re feeling bold enough, try it in front of a mirror.

Watch. There are other ways you can spice up your masturbation habits, and they don’t necessarily have to be done on your own.

Partner. Let your partner watch as you put all the new skills you’ve learned to the test, and see where that takes you. There’s no doubt your partner will be turned on by watching you pleasure yourself.

Help. If you still don’t feel like you’ve quite gotten the hang of masturbation just yet, believe it or not, there are actually masturbation workshops you can take where sex experts answer all your most intimate questions, and give you a play by play of what you should be doing to get the most out of your solo session.