People Share Things They Wish They Could Tell Their Significant Others

Many people in relationships believe they know everything there is to know about their partner. However, they may not be aware that their significant other might be keeping things from them that they're too afraid to say. From secretly wanting to leave them, to being insecure about their sexual history, here 15 people took to Reddit to discuss the things they wish they could say to their significant other but are too afraid to do so.

User laxgoalie30. "That I wish she'd stop talking about losing weight and just start working out consistently and not eat so much junk. I love her the way she is, I am just running out of things to say when she brings it up."

User Quetzel. "You're a slob and part of the reason this relationship hasn't moved forward is because I can't see myself moving in with you until you change.”

User pointeraser. "That shes an awesome person and I know how much she loves me and I mean to her but our sexual incompatibility is just killing me little by little each day."

User anferny08. "As much as she tries to show that she loves me, it's not enough for me unless I can hear it said explicitly - unprompted. Until then I can't trust her or buy in fully."

User OverthinkingMachine. "I actually don't like it when she goes out with her coworkers. Part of it stems from the fact that I feel like she has guy coworkers that want her, but the main reason is a mix of that and how she can get a bit too drunk. It hasn't happened often, but while we have been seeing each other, there were 3 occasions where she drank way too much and ended up blacking out. Thankfully though, each time she had some good girl friends with her that ended up taking care of her."

User Vittra666. “That I want him to lose weight and go back to how he looked last year. I still love him abd I still find him sexy and attractive but sometimes his weight can just be a real turn off. He also has a chronic case of plumbers crack and won't wear his boxers higher to prevent it. He has a hairy bum too. I wish he'd make an effort to look more put together."

User Celac242. "That I think she has narcissistic personality disorder. She changed so dramatically after we signed a lease and she says everything is fine. She told me I'm imagining how affectionate she used to be and how much more romantic she once was."

Anonymous user. “That I don't know how well I'll be able to handle a long distance relationship if he gets a job far away when he graduates. But I don't want him to stay here because of me."

User turndownfordaniel. "I wish he didn't have such an...extensive romantic history. Which is unbelievably hypocritical. It just makes me insecure, and even though we love and are committed to each other happily and unquestionably, it just really f*cking sucks to keep bumping into ex girlfriends."

User binkerfluid. "As soon as I make enough money to make you go away and so my child can still have a good life with both of us you are gone. You are a horrible black hole of a person and knowing you had made me worse of a person."

User 00ohno. "That as much as I want to stay with him, I don't think I can get over his emotional affair. I'm trying, but I am sometimes mean to him (often without realizing it a first) because I'm still mad about the whole thing. F*ck me, right?!"

User JamesA95. "That I miss our sex life when we first started dating. For the duration of this year sex has been all about her. She's happy to receive oral but doesn't want to give it. The sex itself is good it's just the oral side of things. Also I'd like us to have sex more than once a week. I felt like every time I stayed at hers in the beginning we always had sex but now not so much."

User Nomadic_Sushi. "That even though we both know I'm going bald quite fast at a young age and that i'd be devastated if you did but I'd understand if our relationship died because you would no longer have any form of attraction to me."

User O_oblivious. "That while I care for her deeply, I don't feel like it's the forever kind of love. She doesn't ignite that fiery passion that I've felt before. And that her long-term plans involve domesticating me, while I feel I need large expanses of wild places to roam, to keep me sane. Basically- she pulls me East, towards cities and suburbs, and my heart pulls me West, away from that."

User vancouverbabe. "I love him but he needs to stop d*cking around, set some goals and start getting his sh*t together. The constant drinking and drug use is getting old. He won’t be able to fall back on this college lifestyle for long. He has some growing up to do."